As a white male who grew up in (American) poverty, from my point of view they've have been incredibly insulated by their wealth.
By 15 years old, I had been physically attacked a dozen times without cause, chased by gangs in cars for being in the wrong neighborhood, had a gun pointed at me at least twice, and threatened physically dozens of times over nothing.
People are people. Everybody is going to get insulted at least once in their life. If you're fat you're going to get called a whale, if you're short you're going to get called a dwarf, if you're disabled you're going to get called a monster, if you're a woman you're going to get called a whore, if you're black you're going to get called a nigger. And if you're a tall handsome white male don't worry they'll find something about you that you can't change and that they think will hurt you.
While what the author described happening to himself and his parents is genuinely terrible, his children have it easy, if you can't deal with people don't live with people.
We should be aiming for "Who gives a shit? It's just a word. Fuck you and your racism. Now... lets grab a beer, hang out and learn about each other."
Race baiters (You disagree with Obama, that means your racist!), reverse racism (Can't hire you because you don't meet our minority quota), those who think minorities can't be racist (Shooting a "Gentle Giant" is evil. Knockout Game isn't?), etc, etc, etc
Retarded? Faggot? Redskins? Kike? Cracker? Words.
People need to stop letting their lives be SHATTERED! by some random ignorant prick.
> Shouldn't we be aiming for "didn't get called 'nigger'"?
No. Getting insulted once in a while is the price we pay for living in an environment that allows freedom of expression. The alternative is very similar to what people in totalitarian countries do: use the newspeak in public, calling surveillance "the S-word", and speak their mind at home, after checking for listening devices.
How about "can say it but don't"? Their getting insulted is a price they pay, but not one I pay. They might reasonably object if I say "we pay".
And if you have never been in a situation where you are the white stranger in a group of persons wondering whether they can break out the n-word in front of you, you have missed an (obnoxiously0 amusing but uncomfortable situation.
I don't think accused is the right term, but it's also true that it is easier to "climb up from poverty" as a poor white person in the US than as a poor black person. Have a look at [1], particularly figure 1 on page 7 to see the transition probabilities by income for whites and blacks in the US. You'll see that whites are far more likely to move up in wealth from their parents. As a single number from the chart (in case you don't want to look at the whole thing), whites are about twice as likely as blacks to move upward from the 1-50 percentile range of parent income.
You my friend have no idea what a bad argument is.
So control for IQ. Lets say we did.
Sadly the statistics already say that a poor white person is more likely to "climb up from poverty" than a poor black person.
See the problem with your argument is that you somehow think that IQ is a factor here.
Lets say there are 10 job openings, and 3 of those jobs are run by people who are secretly prejudiced against black people and will come up with some excuse to not hire them.
That means for a white person there are 10 job openings and for a black person there are only 7, regardless of IQ.
So a white person and a black person with equal IQ do not have an equal situation in a country where the supremacy is white (even outside of racism and the like, there is always cultural bias which applies here).
The study controlled for cognitive abilities, it's graphed on figure 8c. "Consistent with previous studies linking AFQT scores to racial differences in adult outcomes (for example, Neal and Johnson, 1996; Cameron and Heckman, 2001), I do not interpret these scores as measuring innate endowments but rather as reflecting the accumulated differences in family background and other influences that are manifested in test scores." Please don't fall for naive evolutionary justifications for discrimination and don't criticize blindly.
'it is easier to "climb up from poverty" as a poor white person in the US than as a poor black person.'
In my specific case this may not have been true - race-based scholarships were not available to me because of the white color of my skin for example.
Rather than view everything through the lens of race, I'd be curious to see your numbers run with the split based on students of poor urban-schools vs students of better suburban schools.
The numbers were split not just by race, but also by parental income. Yes, if you're in the bottom 10 percentile of parental income as a white kid, it's harder to get scholarships than if you're black. Still, these kids are more likely to move up the income charts than their black counterparts, because even though race-based scholarships are more available, the other disadvantages outweigh them.
While I don't have the numbers at hand, I think it's unreasonable to expect that white children of parents in the bottom 10 percent of income are attending good suburban schools in significant numbers, because if you're in the bottom ten percent of income you probably can't afford to live in those regions, regardless of race.
I'm not saying that race is the most important factor, and I'd also like to see splits by schools and other factors. But I think parental income is extremely important, and even after controlling for that we see a very substantial racial component. If race-based scholarships were had such an overriding effect, we wouldn't be able to reproduce these statistics. If you have numbers that show that controlling for some other factor (like school quality) leaves no remaining racial component, definitely let me know, but given how large the disparity remains after controlling for parental income, I sincerely doubt it's the case.
"White privilege" isn't an accusation, it's a cultural reality, along with all sorts of other types of privilege. The point of invoking the concept is not to make people feel bad about being white, but rather simply understand that society isn't actually meritocratic. Opportunities arise via combinations of what you've done, unearned privilege (who you are), and random circumstance.
If you're a white guy and you climb up for poverty, be proud of what you accomplished. Please just don't look back at everyone who hasn't made it and think that they all could have done the same.
The concept of "privilege" is not a reality, it's one subjective way of looking at reality; one that most people don't subscribe to. This is an important distinction that is all too often forgotten.
I don't think you understand the concept. The fact that he doesn't mention being called a racial slur or any horrible interactions with the police is already "white privilege".
It's possible for both of your realities to be true. The reality is that oppression isn't a binary: people get shit on for being black, for being a woman, for being poor, etc. Intersectionality is the study of the oppression and privilege at the meeting of various groups - the oppression faced by a poor white woman is different than the oppression faced by a trans-black woman, etc.
By 15 years old, I had been physically attacked a dozen times without cause, chased by gangs in cars for being in the wrong neighborhood, had a gun pointed at me at least twice, and threatened physically dozens of times over nothing.