Well, on the upside, it is at least written by a man, not a woman, which makes it less cringe-worthy. On the downside, god, what a fucktard, horrible way to handle this issue.
What are you referring to as a horrible way to handle this issue: The article content/tone in general or the approach of avoiding hiring, investing or being alone in a room with a woman?
Per the parent post, I agree with the premise that avoiding hiring/investing/being alone in a room with a woman in reaction to the recent reports of sexual-harassment in tech is a ridiculous approach, especially when there's a more straightforward alternative: simply being professional. It is quite easy to stick to work-only topics at work and related business meetings. If you literally discuss only the founder's company/industry during a pitch meeting, I don't see how it can be misinterpreted.
Per your linked post: "we need to stop playing the victim card. ... If we want to be successful in business, women need to pursue diplomatic solutions, not revenge fantasies."
This line of reasoning highly problematic. Casting the horrific accounts of sexual assault and sexual harassment that those women endured as "playing the victim card" is repugnant. No big change ever unfolded smoothly. The prospect of letting harassment run unchecked for fear of women losing access is also unacceptable. The road ahead may be bumpy but it's worth it as long as there is progress.
It in no way suggests letting harassment run unchecked for fear of women losing access. That isn't what I am talking about at all.
Being professional is something both sides should be. There is nothing professional at all about what you linked to. It is in no way at all respectful of men in tech with professional jobs. It has the maturity level of a bunch of five year olds calling names and accusing each other of having cooties.
But feel free to keep trying to put out the fire with gasoline. It just makes it clearer to other people on HN that I am not a threat to them and should be included in the conversation as an equal. That works for me.
I did find the original title of the TC article I posted to be needlessly inflammatory but the main premise of the content still stands: Avoiding hiring/investing/being alone in a room with a woman in reaction to sexual-harassment reports is a ridiculous approach for anyone who claims not to be a harasser and agrees that the problem is serious.
> But feel free to keep trying to put out the fire with gasoline. It just makes it clearer to other people on HN that I am not a threat to them and should be included in the conversation as an equal. That works for me.
Amazing that all you can take away from this is that one is trying to put out the fire with gasoline. Discussing issues like sexual harassment is inherently uncomfortable and awkward but you appear to prioritize appearances and your perceived likeability/unverifiable impression of how other HNers perceive you over momentary discomfort. I don't.
I don't find it particularly uncomfortable. I am quite comfortable discussing such things.
The article you posted is incredibly disrespectful of men. It isn't in any way professional. It is openly hostile and disrespectful.
An awful lot of women want to feel safe at work and they see nothing wrong with making men feel very unsafe and attacked in the process of pursuing that aim. It is a broken mental model and you cannot get there from here.
The sheer irony of you extrapolating discussion on an issue that disproportionately affects women (including sometimes resulting in them being physically attacked) to "making men feel very unsafe and attacked". Silly title aside, the post that explains clearly in detail how the avoidance approach is untenable and communicates negatively about the person is "openly hostile and disrespectful"? Despite the long road ahead, recent events show progress is happening as some perpetrators are finally being held accountable. Yet, you claim it's "a broken mental model and you cannot get there from here".
I'm adjourning as I see there's no further constructive discussion to be had here.
I actually write quite a lot more than what I self submit. If you think I am self submitting every one of my blog entries to HN, you have absolutely no clue how very much I write across multiple blogs, some of which never get posted here, not even in comments, because of the subject matter.
