Good Lord, I have heard so many different takes on 'what makes something offensive.' My favorite was a teenager telling me only one person has to find something offensive before we have to all consider it as such and stop saying it.
The fact that words "have context and actual loaded meanings" is besides the point. I am saying that these things come into fashion and then pass away.
I'm sure you know it was only in the past 70 years that 'gay' took on its new meaning.
> I am saying that these things come into fashion and then pass away.
If words can come INTO fashion for various reasons, then some must be allowed to LEAVE fashion for other reasons. Letting them pass out of empathy is probably one of the most noble and equitable reasons we could have to change our language.
Your argument is so strange. You argue that language is fluid then get angry, confused and dismissive when people use that fact to change the world around them.
The meaning of the word retard has drifted. It used to be a totally acceptable word, a polite alternative to Mongoloid, used by doctors and societies.
Now outside the US it's pretty much only ever used as hate speech. The US is a bit different because the word still has some small pockets of acceptable use (although I can't see those lasting much longer).
The fact that words "have context and actual loaded meanings" is besides the point. I am saying that these things come into fashion and then pass away.
I'm sure you know it was only in the past 70 years that 'gay' took on its new meaning.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay#Shift_to_homosexual
Stop trying to lock words in place and ban them. Let people use them or avoid them as they will, and their meanings will shift, as they always have.