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The Paradox of Slow Love (theatlantic.com)
2 points by tomrod on Feb 14, 2022 | hide | past | favorite | 1 comment


I've always believed that people decide if they are attracted to each other very quickly, like in the first two weeks. If you don't feel some spark in that time you are at best going to be in the FriendZone™ for the rest of your life.

Now maybe you can decide you're going to live with a friend and have children anyway but if you let things go slow I'm afraid the passion won't ever be there.




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