Maybe from your end it looks that way. It doesn't from my end.
I've done a lot of "surprising" things, healthwise, over the years and there seems to be no means whatsoever to make people on the internet happy with how I talk about it. No amount of bending over backwards to signal "this was something really, really, ordinary, I swear!!!!!" is ever enough to protect me from people reacting with animosity and I almost never know if it's because they do recognize me and know something about my back story or if it's because they don't recognize me.
For me, it's a no win situation and it's not possible for me to guess what the magic words are that will keep everyone happy and get me out of the corner with the dunce's cap for the crime of not dying years ago from my serious medical condition because I'm so incredibly rude like that.
For the sake of your own mental health, you should stop caring about what makes random internet strangers happy. There will be always a minority reacting with animosity to even the most milquetoast of content, and responding in frustration will only make it worse.
When animosity reaches a certain threshold, ignoring it is actually dangerous and not merely to one's mental health.
I didn't respond in frustration. That's one of the issues here. Other people act weird, tell me there's something wrong with how I phrased it, I engage them conversationally and now some other random stranger replies with a comment that can be interpreted to mean I'm merely neurotic and oversensitive.
That boils down to "When other people react weirdly to your prosaic observation, you cannot engage them. You are required to try to somehow rise above it and not speak to them. And when this becomes an entrenched pattern, it's somehow your fault for existing."
I've done a lot of "surprising" things, healthwise, over the years and there seems to be no means whatsoever to make people on the internet happy with how I talk about it. No amount of bending over backwards to signal "this was something really, really, ordinary, I swear!!!!!" is ever enough to protect me from people reacting with animosity and I almost never know if it's because they do recognize me and know something about my back story or if it's because they don't recognize me.
For me, it's a no win situation and it's not possible for me to guess what the magic words are that will keep everyone happy and get me out of the corner with the dunce's cap for the crime of not dying years ago from my serious medical condition because I'm so incredibly rude like that.