Remove the following things from your two comments:
being white, I automatically get accused of unfairness)
less educated people
will I ever be able to word it without hurting people.
So I've defaulted to thinking it's a prejudice from the listener.
You imply a lot of ugly things about other people. It will get you ugly reactions to do that.
I have lots of unpopular/controversial opinions. I have found it enormously helpful to work on trying to express them without insulting my audience in the process. It can certainly be a hard row to hoe.
He asked for feedback. I gave it. I think I did so respectfully. If he sincerely hopes to learn to engage people effectively in meaty discussion about difficult topics, hopefully this will help him get there.
