2) Gather information.
More specifically, if you know a doctor, contact said doctor. If you can't, find a way to meet with a physician as soon as possible and get a second opinion. Get someone to explain to you what this diagnosis means. Explore fully your plan, Cobra, etc.
3) Tell fiancee, family, etc (not in an alarming way). Or not.
That is, decide whether you want those closest to you to know. This is very personal and we can't choose for you.
4) Save money
Above all don't panic. The most important step is getting informed on what is happening and what your alternatives are and what options you have.
Perhaps right now you don't see this, but like others have said, you can beat this. Now is the time to act swiftly and gather information. Don't waste time. See a doctor ASAP.
1) Calm down.
2) Gather information. More specifically, if you know a doctor, contact said doctor. If you can't, find a way to meet with a physician as soon as possible and get a second opinion. Get someone to explain to you what this diagnosis means. Explore fully your plan, Cobra, etc.
3) Tell fiancee, family, etc (not in an alarming way). Or not. That is, decide whether you want those closest to you to know. This is very personal and we can't choose for you.
4) Save money
Above all don't panic. The most important step is getting informed on what is happening and what your alternatives are and what options you have.
Perhaps right now you don't see this, but like others have said, you can beat this. Now is the time to act swiftly and gather information. Don't waste time. See a doctor ASAP.