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Usually, if you have two options and you're debating which is right or wrong, both options are right and you're just trying to figure out which is more right. Often it doesn't matter. There are probably many better options that you haven't considered. Most of the time, it's best just to pick one, you can observe what happens (the negative impacts are far less dramatic than anxiety would have you believe) and adjust. Sometimes the right option is merely to make a choice. The choice doesn't have to be final, it just has to allow you to make progress.

As a child, I stopped worrying about religion when I heard and adapted a Buddhist belief; no matter how much we ask is there a God, we will never know. And this doesn't matter. We accept that there might or might not be. We choose to live the life that we consider correct. That may not be the same life for everyone, but their choice is neither correct or incorrect.



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