"In the UK we have the NHS, and even though the waiting lists can be long (because these are the areas that tend to be the first to go during budget cuts), help is freely available."
Help is also generally, if not universally (I just can't guarantee it since this is often state-level), available in the US for all manner of developmental issues. And, uh, I didn't have any problems with waiting lists, either, with either of my children.
(The portrayal of the US as some sort of vast health-care wasteland often has more roots in politics than reality, which is not to say that there aren't problems, and even in some cases severe problems, but nevertheless, the problems are often greatly oversold because it benefits certain people very much to do so, a fact that should never be forgotten in these discussions.)
The biggest problem with these resources is people knowing they exist at all, and also, as mentioned by others, denial on the part of the parents. (My wife and I have generally avoided denial but we can certainly see it in our extended families.) My wife and I know of at least two other children that we believe are probably autistic or something (not trying to diagnose, just observing an awful lot of similarities to the other autistic children we know... you get to know many of them when you go to the meetups), but the parents won't even hear the word "autism", let alone have it checked.
Help is also generally, if not universally (I just can't guarantee it since this is often state-level), available in the US for all manner of developmental issues. And, uh, I didn't have any problems with waiting lists, either, with either of my children.
(The portrayal of the US as some sort of vast health-care wasteland often has more roots in politics than reality, which is not to say that there aren't problems, and even in some cases severe problems, but nevertheless, the problems are often greatly oversold because it benefits certain people very much to do so, a fact that should never be forgotten in these discussions.)
The biggest problem with these resources is people knowing they exist at all, and also, as mentioned by others, denial on the part of the parents. (My wife and I have generally avoided denial but we can certainly see it in our extended families.) My wife and I know of at least two other children that we believe are probably autistic or something (not trying to diagnose, just observing an awful lot of similarities to the other autistic children we know... you get to know many of them when you go to the meetups), but the parents won't even hear the word "autism", let alone have it checked.