Like I said, threats really suck. They do, I wouldn't ever deny that.
The cost of eliminating them just isn't a cost I'm willing to pay, however. Maybe that's because I don't pay a high cost for that position, but that's probably true for most of the things I or anyone else believe.
Except not quite.
Serious question: When was the last time you received a rape or death threat for something you posted?
Now accept that if you are a woman, the chances are that you have.
There is a narrative of equality in your statement which is betrayed by the statistical reality.