That sounds right, and if you're good at self-promotion, interviewing, and negotiation, I don't think 200k within a year is unachievable.
I've heard of fresh college grads getting 200k all-in compensation (base + stock + bonus) at Google/Facebook.
As for cost of living, it's really up to you. You don't have to live in SF. The only reason prices in SF are high is because you have swarms of engineers with 6-figure salaries and startups with millions raised bidding up the prices in a few highly desirable areas of SF. If you're willing to 1) have a roommate, 2) live in a less desirable (specifically, a much higher crime area), or 3) give up being able to walk to work / bike to work in 10 minutes and live with a 30 minute commute from other cities in the SF area (East Bay, some parts of South Bay, etc., then you can lower your costs a lot.
I've heard of fresh college grads getting 200k all-in compensation (base + stock + bonus) at Google/Facebook.
As for cost of living, it's really up to you. You don't have to live in SF. The only reason prices in SF are high is because you have swarms of engineers with 6-figure salaries and startups with millions raised bidding up the prices in a few highly desirable areas of SF. If you're willing to 1) have a roommate, 2) live in a less desirable (specifically, a much higher crime area), or 3) give up being able to walk to work / bike to work in 10 minutes and live with a 30 minute commute from other cities in the SF area (East Bay, some parts of South Bay, etc., then you can lower your costs a lot.