My challenge is that I don't have a problem with the ambiguity behind knowing what to do, (I love it actually) it is just getting the cahones to say, "YES, I will commit to this uncertainty, if it kills me."
Same here. It's taking that step that looks like it's off a cliff. The irony is that, in talking with other folks, I'm told the drop off is only a few inches. The cliff is an optical illusion.