Unless you're talking big money (which you may eventually) you're not likely to find many women/men who are attractive wanting to blind date for a free dinner or whatever.
What you could do actually, is get the person's friends to pick from the top 5, or have bidding levels that you can match to be considered "in", instead of auction style bidding.
I bet you there are more than a few people here that would disagree with that statement. (I'm not one of them, but I know that there are people making a killing on Facebook right now.)
You would definitely have to do some leg work to find women who want in. They especially may not want the attention.
That was my thought of using virtual gifts. If you send a virtual flower or teddy bear to woo the girl, it helps indicate you're serious.
I also thought about letting the girl post her top choices along the way and let the audience comment and add their thoughts in. Another option would be letting the girl pick a "wingwoman" who helps and comments on the guys who apply.
I think you're going to have to do some work to alleviate the "creeper effect" - you know, the feeling that girls get from guys who they aren't interested in, but keep sending things anyways?
You know, you could make it a "bachelor" style date, in that you could send both guy and girl off for a weekend in Jamaica, or a week in Spain or something like that. Of course the whole thing just got a lot more expensive, but it still might fly.
You'd need to vet the contestants much more, but I'm sure that would take away the jitters some people may have in letting the highest bidder win.
EDIT: I got it. You combine the ideas: Virtual Gifts are submitted to get to a "bidding" stage. Auctioned approves profiles they would consider (They have the interest of keeping this amount high) Pre-approved people are allowed to bid. Winning bid wins. Date paid for based on amount of winning bid (the higher, the better the date, hence the reason the auctioned wants lots of bidders). So long as all the bids total more than the cost of the date, profit ensues.
exactly. The question is, how do you consistently generate enough traffic and get people bidding? Yes, it's 99 cents per bid, but if you're not interested in the girl, it doesn't matter. ie- shes too tall, it wouldn't matter if it were free. A PR burst would be nice for that week of launch, but what about the other 51 weeks in the year? If you can figure out that formula, profit ensues. Step 2: ????? actually exists here.
That's nothing to worry about. You said like woot right? Well, one pre-selected girl, one pre-selected guy per week (You can extend that to same sex matches as well, which makes for 4 contests a week, locally in X amount of cities.)
You put a detailed description of the auctioned on the site, along with the date description, and invite everyone to apply to bid. Auctioned selects those allowed to bid, I suppose you can put auto limiting options here if you want. (So far, no money). Bidding commences with a conveniently placed minimum bet (say 75% of date cost) and is not fixed - bid whatever you want. Since the bidders and auctioned are pre-selected, all we're looking to do here is get that bidding as high over the date cost (assuming only one date, perhaps if it gets really high, say 100% over the cost, the date changes, and so on and so on.) This way, you let the auctioned do your marketing for you - their interest is getting that big free night out, after all, so they keep the pool of allowed bidders large. So long as you keep the auctioned pre-selected for attractiveness/interestingness, you win. Throw a pictureless rss feed up there and don't worry, people will come back.
Hell, what the hell am I doing, I should just go build this thing!
I'd say just start with girls at first. Guys make it more complicated, and they don't have as much of a draw. I could be wrong here.
You'd have to have really in depth profiles of the girl of the week/day. Video intro, multiple pictures, in-depth Q&A, etc. If you're giving the restaurant for the date decent exposure, you may not really need to even pay for anything.
I think once you figure the traffic formula out, it's game over (in a good way). Creating attention and buzz for it will not be hard.
The thing I'm thinking about is, IF the girl is decently attractive enough to warrant such bids and attention, she should have no trouble getting dates. She might actually be wary of displaying herself on a meatmarket full of hungry males with 99 cents to lose.
I had a somewhat similar idea I fleshed out a couple of years ago that also involved local dating, but was more targeted at the 9-5 working crowd and bringing them together on an invite/want basis for quick coffee/lunch dates that brought a couple together long enough to 'get to know' but not so long that it got uncomfortable. What I couldn't figure out was how to monetize it, but your 99 cent 'participation' fee is intriguing me enough to try and resurrect it. I wouldn't mind exchanging a couple of no-strings emails with you if you'd like to discuss.
@icey - yeah, women should be able to clearly mark a guy as "out of the running". Creepers will definitely come to the site, but having an application fee (micro-transaction 99 cent level) should create some barrier to entry. How much of a barrier? That I don't know.
The auction idea was one thought I had, but then it would be dependent upon whoever spent the most, and not the girl's tastes.