Just have to treat the options as confetti from then on.
Agree. (1) Don't ever take a salary drop for options w/out cap table, and (2) don't make sacrifices that would hurt your career or home life because of them either.
Most people in the startup world have evolved enough to get (1) but (2) is where startup culture tends to go off the rails-- people start working 80-hour weeks on career-incoherent grunt work for their options, blissfully unaware of the 10-100x larger grants given to all of the nontechnical VPs who go home at 3:30.
Engineers are smart these days. Is anybody really doing 80h/week for shady options? I doubt it. Employees stuck in this position generally aren't so bright or don't have any other choice for some other reason. But still very rare.
Agree. (1) Don't ever take a salary drop for options w/out cap table, and (2) don't make sacrifices that would hurt your career or home life because of them either.
Most people in the startup world have evolved enough to get (1) but (2) is where startup culture tends to go off the rails-- people start working 80-hour weeks on career-incoherent grunt work for their options, blissfully unaware of the 10-100x larger grants given to all of the nontechnical VPs who go home at 3:30.