I often see claims that "purpose only comes from work" (or its logical inverse, that "no work means no purpose"), but I cannot tell you how strongly I disagree with you.
:) However, I believe there is a world possible for both of us, as you can do the work while I relax, and we are both happy.
I won't be doing nothing. I'm sure I will do something, but I will not do it for money, just for fun. Read books, learn obscure languages, program non-monetizable projects, ... Also, this means that I will be under absolutely no pressure to stick with it, instead I will be able to switch my hobbies every other week (as soon as I get border).
For me, to relax means to be without obligations, not to be completely idle.
:) However, I believe there is a world possible for both of us, as you can do the work while I relax, and we are both happy.