On: Ask HN: How do you stop regretting?

[ctdonath]

You did what you did in good faith to yourself.

Circumstances beyond your control were beyond your control.

Assess your position as a matter of fact, and proceed forward in good faith and honest intent as circumstances allow.

Early 30s is just getting started. I didn't have a sense of having a good grip on life until 40.

Do what needs to be done.

Take care of your own square foot.

Stop looking backwards.

If you need professional help, get it.

[ctdonath → ctdonath]

Spend some serious time at http://artofmanliness.com . Read the Bible too.

[mcantelon → ctdonath]

"The Tin Drum" too.

[vertr → ctdonath]

Patriarchal bullshit is not what this guy needs. That said, I agree with the content of your first comment.