I wouldn't be offended by a black bar. I just don't like calling on other people to do stuff. Likewise you could ask of a widow to wear black for a year, and if she wouldn't, you could start gossiping and badmouthing her.
Also, there are more and more people who go through HN. Perhaps eventually the bar has to be black all the time because somebody always dies.
Also, there are more and more people who go through HN. Perhaps eventually the bar has to be black all the time because somebody always dies.