Imagine if someone was selling an aluminum bicycle lock and claiming that it was hardened steel, and when told that actually aluminum was not the same material as hardened steel, accused the poor guy of "splitting a weird hair", which to me is the point where incivility was introduced, by you, in order to attempt to discredit the information I was offering you.
I’m not selling anything. I sad at the top “I’m working on”. You aren’t offering me any information I don’t know. I’ve read the 1966 paper that introduced the term.
Look at how you’re behaving in public and ask yourself if this is the kind of person you want to be.
