On: How do you handle claims of neglect from your significant other(s)?

[inklesspen]

Take them seriously. If your relationship was healthy before, the fact that you have to be told you're neglecting your SO means you should have noticed a long time ago.

[joehere → inklesspen]

Or it means that you're actually doing your job.

[run4yourlives → joehere]

Probably, but you should decide which is more important.