> Plot twist, I’m from one of the countries in question that “need” aid.
Nice appeal to origin (genetic fallacy), but that doesn't compensate for the complete lack of concern for others represented in your comments?
What would make you want to contribute to others foreign to your country (if you aren't from the US)? Why do you have a concern for how we spend money? Or are you a permanent resident or a citizen now? What scenario makes it a worthwhile endeavor to you?