HN for discussions that are not as mean as elsewhere on the Internet, I rather like this community and there's people with lots of experience and cool stuff to share here.
Mastodon for a comfy alternative to Twitter/X (feels less algorithmic, less ads), maybe Bluesky could serve a similar function.
Discord or WhatsApp for chatting with friends, and also the sort of discussions that you would have had on forums back in the day (vs the shorter form content of Mastodon/Bluesky). I have to say that I dislike people replacing forums for various technologies with Discord though, since I feel like something like Discourse/phpBB/whatever would be a better fit, more easily searchable etc., just felt like mentioning that.
Reddit or YouTube for seeing what's going on in the world, as well as any number of niche communities. For example, there's one about PC building, there's even one for Intel Arc GPUs, there's a lot of communities.
Slack, Skype (the meetings are better than Zoom) or maybe eventually Mattermost/Jitsi for chatting with people at work.
Now, it's not as much of a community as it is a news site, but LSM for some local reporting in my country: https://eng.lsm.lv/ which doesn't seem to have too much clickbait or the rude comments you get on most of the sites in my country, e.g. instead there's stuff like this https://eng.lsm.lv/article/economy/transport/11.01.2025-be-l... I'm sure that most countries have some down to earth news sites too.
i started lemmy with a programming instance, as it's a bit more focused on what i want to see. on android i use an app 'Sync for Lemmy' which makes it a little easier when i want to branch out into viewing all of lemmy.
honestly, any platform these days is going to need a lot of filtering to cut out what you don't want to see
- Lemmy is FEDERATED ( google about it )
- If you want to see only posts from LOCAL ( not local to your instance ) posts select "LOCAL" default is "ALL" ( Federated from all )
Thanks, I think it got better in at least one instance of those. But for some reason programming.dev is okay either way. Feels like posts don’t change if I switch between all/local. Why is that?
Reddit and Discord. I dislike how difficult is to find valuable information now because communities on discord are locked in custom tech.
In the past I was active on some online forums for moto enthusiasts, gaming and news but this time is gone sadly. Now I try to minimise time spent online.
I've found that some recruiters are posting roles instead of publishing roles. These are often more relevant than the suggestions I get from LinkedIn. Does that plug in allow specific filtering? Thanks
Rands Leadership Slack is a fantastic and supportive community targeting Engineering and Product leaders primarily, but not exclusively. At around 35K members right now, it has channels on just about every topic. It's invite-only, but super easy to get invited.
A few forums and other than that the only community I’m part of—if you can call it a community—is people with blogs. I read what they write, post on my own, and interact with them privately via email.
Curated corner of Mastodon.
Open-source projects use Zulip/Discord/Matrix as forums so I go there as well.
Others like sub-Reddits, HN or blogs I access mostly through RSS feeds. (With occasional exceptions like now.)
For surface-level information/news there is huge overlap in those places. Many duplicates.
My 2025 resolution is to be less online.
I used to be on Instagram around 2010 till Facebook bought it and changed it from community to influencers-infested algorithms and ads - I have no time for that.
Well, I thought Reddit could be HN for other topics. I was wrong. It's mostly an echo chamber there, apart from the heavily moderated subs that normally start with r/Ask{Economists/Historians/Linguistics/etc}
It still has some use as a personal news feed, but most of the comments are worthless.
There's a few math and science subs that are a bit like StackOverflow back when that was still useful.
Mastodon and Bluesky and various Discourse forums.
Reluctantly on Reddit as the current activitypub alternatives don't feel quite right (emulating the chaos of Reddit).
Even more reluctantly on Linkedin, given that there is no real alternative for a decentralized open source "professional" network, which shows how early we are in this transition process.
I see that no one has mentioned Discord yet. I use it occasionally, and I have quite a few themed spaces there. However, I can't say that I particularly enjoy it. I mostly just check in from time to time. Discord always feels like a place where I miss a true sense of "community", which is very hard for me to define.
IMHO discord has far too much "community". at best you want to learn about $coolThing and the server is dominated by a handful of terminally online folks. at worst there's rampant extremism and grooming which goes largely unchecked
also even the most benign discord servers are taking what used to be freely accessible (forums, hobby sites, fansites, etc) and walling the content into a proprietary system which demands your phone number, real IP, etc. it's slowly strangulating all other forms of internet community
I got a 2+ year ban from Discord for being 'inactive' (I didn't properly moderate a server I created), at least to the best of my understanding. Their appeal and discovery process are abysmal.
Which a large variety of communities, sample projects, discussions that I found really useful, I now have 0 access too.
I am just at a loss of what to do with having lost access to useful information, communities, and peers. This is far more prevalent and problematic in gamedev related communities compared to other software communities.
The thing with Discord and Reddit is: using it means very little. The communities make or break it. For example, I play two games regularly: Wordfeud and Warcraft Rumble. For Wordfeud, I seek no community, I only play it with my mother and my wife. For Warcraft Rumble, I like to theorycraft for myself, but if I really am stuck that is one of the places I go to first. So I lurk there, which means I am a user. But I do not participate since I removed my Reddit account a while ago. Similar with Discord (I do have an account): I am member of quite some Discord communities but I almost exclusively lurk. Discord and Reddit are nothing special though, since their ToS are terrible (we own your data, here are some ads, we profile you). The only reason I am there is network effect and the signal to noise ratio regarding info is 'good enough'. You're not even allowed to use your own or a modified client though...
Why is "talk into a black hole" discord so popular? I'm a member of several discord severs, and they are just noise, or someone trying to project manage with Discord (which is a poor project manager) or whomever just assume you're there to work for them for free and they assign you work without asking.
I use Reddit, but very cautiously. The echo chamber effect is so strong over there and critical thinkers are not exactly rewarded, so many subreddits develop beliefs that are completely contrary to what’s going on in the real world. It’s also heavily astroturfed, which makes the problem worse as disinformation is constantly being injected. Sticking to subreddits about cooking, coding, landscaping, etc is usually fine.
If you list your email publicly (here or on your profile) or email me directly I can invite you. Same goes for anyone else reading, provided you pass the vibe check
Brave's ad blocker is as effective as uBlock Origin, considering they use the same blocklists and techniques to block ads. Firefox + uBlock Origin will give you an equivalent experience without all the grifting.
Mastodon for a comfy alternative to Twitter/X (feels less algorithmic, less ads), maybe Bluesky could serve a similar function.
Discord or WhatsApp for chatting with friends, and also the sort of discussions that you would have had on forums back in the day (vs the shorter form content of Mastodon/Bluesky). I have to say that I dislike people replacing forums for various technologies with Discord though, since I feel like something like Discourse/phpBB/whatever would be a better fit, more easily searchable etc., just felt like mentioning that.
Reddit or YouTube for seeing what's going on in the world, as well as any number of niche communities. For example, there's one about PC building, there's even one for Intel Arc GPUs, there's a lot of communities.
Slack, Skype (the meetings are better than Zoom) or maybe eventually Mattermost/Jitsi for chatting with people at work.
Now, it's not as much of a community as it is a news site, but LSM for some local reporting in my country: https://eng.lsm.lv/ which doesn't seem to have too much clickbait or the rude comments you get on most of the sites in my country, e.g. instead there's stuff like this https://eng.lsm.lv/article/economy/transport/11.01.2025-be-l... I'm sure that most countries have some down to earth news sites too.