On: How to give a senior leader feedback without getting fired

[alsetmusic]

> You don't do it in public.

The comment you're replying to specifically nullified your example.

[thaumasiotes → alsetmusic]

You might want to read the comments before you decide what they mean. It doesn't say "face can only be lost in public". It says "face can only be lost among peers and superiors".

[jack_pp → thaumasiotes]

If you want to understand "face" here's a 56 min video : https://library.biblicalarchaeology.org/video/honor-and-sham...