So are they human like and therefore not anything special or are they super human magic? I never get the equivocation when people complain how there is no way to objectively tell what out is right or wrong people either say they are getting better, or they work for me, or that people are just as bad. No they aren't! Not in the same way these things are bad.
Most people will confidently recount whatever narrative matches their current actions. This is called rationalization, and most people engage in it daily.