As others have said, your time and attention. It's really easy to try to defend your own time. Don't. Come out of your world, and enter theirs. Be with them.
If you can afford it, get a cleaning service. You and your spouse/partner have a huge new demand on your time. It helps if you can cut something else.
If you can afford it, get a cleaning service. You and your spouse/partner have a huge new demand on your time. It helps if you can cut something else.