I like it, you have the FEATHER cushions of the SOFA.
> I think both this and the article's "SOFA" are useful frameworks to deal with perfectionism.
I feel it's understated how perfectionism and fear of failure are two sides of the same issue.
SOFA "call it quits and win" vs FEATHER "get to the end and celebrate" ideas both fight against an internalised conscientiousness where a thing is only done right if it's thoroughly explored and completed in all dimensions. Which isn't normally possible or worth it IMHO.
> I think both this and the article's "SOFA" are useful frameworks to deal with perfectionism.
I feel it's understated how perfectionism and fear of failure are two sides of the same issue.
SOFA "call it quits and win" vs FEATHER "get to the end and celebrate" ideas both fight against an internalised conscientiousness where a thing is only done right if it's thoroughly explored and completed in all dimensions. Which isn't normally possible or worth it IMHO.