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It's not just lack of practice, when these people get picked on they internalize low self value, so even if they practice social skills enough to get the hang of it they're still going to be awkward because they tend to act from a "loser" frame. That internalized low self value can be incredibly hard to fix, much harder than just developing social skills.





Also known as "Loser's Lose" and "Winner's Win". A lot of social dynamics run on this principle.



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