You seem to have set up two purposes in conflict with each other.
On one hand you are telling people what to do, nicely.
On the other, you recognize the intent of such a statement is to share an experience to see if it fits their situation.
The only person who can know the difference, most of the time, is you.
After all, If your statement is helpful, people will use it.
So is it an issue of you being insincere ? Or is it an issue if you being confused if you are being helpful but in reality coercive ?
If it’s insincerity, then do what makes you happier with your statements.
If it’s coercive, then give people a choice - let them know your concerns, ensure that they have all the information to own the choice.
You seem to have set up two purposes in conflict with each other.
On one hand you are telling people what to do, nicely.
On the other, you recognize the intent of such a statement is to share an experience to see if it fits their situation.
The only person who can know the difference, most of the time, is you.
After all, If your statement is helpful, people will use it.
So is it an issue of you being insincere ? Or is it an issue if you being confused if you are being helpful but in reality coercive ?
If it’s insincerity, then do what makes you happier with your statements.
If it’s coercive, then give people a choice - let them know your concerns, ensure that they have all the information to own the choice.