On: Do not try to be the smartest in the room; try to be the kindest

[derefr]

Which of the two would say nothing in the public meeting to let you save face, but then would pull you aside for a "quick chat" afterward, and tell you your idea is bad then?

[ekanes → derefr]

The one who is both nice and kind. :P

[eleveriven → ekanes]

And smart