Honestly, I'm a bit curious why sshd startup would ever be significant. Not sure.
The most intensive operation I can think of that might happen at sshd startup would be host key generation, but at least in NixOS it looks like this is actually handled in an ExecStartPre= script, which I believe means it will happen before After= units execute.
Of course I sincerely doubt that distributions decided to add sd_notify support just for the hell of it, so I am sure there is a reason, it's just not overtly obvious, especially considering plenty of distros don't do this and sshd (and dependent units presumably) certainly seems to work absolutely fine.