Well, this also discounts the whole "is a problem for the types of guys found in phd programs" thing. Yeah, a large majority of guys would like to sleep with women. It's not just a factor of, "does my wife expect me to not fuck around", and is significantly, "is there anyone in my life that i can actually have sex with". Loneliness is a big deal and for a quiet and introverted, private guy having a wife raises the potential partners from 0 to 1, an infinitely higher amount.
Yeah, if you have the body type and personality type and time and willingness to seek out and sleep with random women then go for it. But just because you don't fit that bill doesn't mean you don't need sexual comfort in your life. (I don't believe you said that, but it's a useful statement for me to make)
Yeah, if you have the body type and personality type and time and willingness to seek out and sleep with random women then go for it. But just because you don't fit that bill doesn't mean you don't need sexual comfort in your life. (I don't believe you said that, but it's a useful statement for me to make)