I totally agree that it's important (to all of us) that prisoners be able to maintain their most intimate connections.
> I do think there should very much be tiering of prisons. There are some irredeemably fucked up individuals, who have burned through multiple chances
I both know what you mean and think it's important to consider the current unacceptable state of prisons (which isn't exactly new) when thinking about people using up "multiple" chances. I don't have easy answers at all but part of this is how easy it is to write people off based on an incomplete understanding of their situation.
Any system is fallible. Is the person in prison because the courts worked or they didn't? Is the inmate in solitary because prison monitoring worked or it didn't?
So human sortings will never be 100% fair and correct.
But there's also a vast range to how people conduct themselves in the world and their moral codes.
I think it at least behooves us to consider that the greatest threat to rehabilitation of some inmates might be... other inmates.
> I do think there should very much be tiering of prisons. There are some irredeemably fucked up individuals, who have burned through multiple chances
I both know what you mean and think it's important to consider the current unacceptable state of prisons (which isn't exactly new) when thinking about people using up "multiple" chances. I don't have easy answers at all but part of this is how easy it is to write people off based on an incomplete understanding of their situation.