> The arrogance required to tell someone that their experience is false is something I have trouble wrapping my head around.
It's my least favorite thing about HN, but it's one of the opiates of the internet. Alternate phrasing like "not in my experience" might be slightly better.
I still think "downvote to grey" is a regression vs. simply letting popular comments be voted higher.
It's human nature to think that our personal experience and worldview is representative of the general population, even though it almost never actually is. It's a thing we have to consciously be on guard about.
"We tend to mistake the limits of our vision for the limits of the world."
If you allow the misperception to take hold, it's a short step to concluding that anyone who isn't like you is weird or wrong in some way.
The arrogance required to tell someone that their experience is false is something I have trouble wrapping my head around.