This year, I found https://f3nation.com/ and it's been great. Very welcoming group of men and these group of men are each others support group. Many of them seem to have known each other for years. It's free so more approachable than some expensive gyms. The one I go to in Puget Sound also has a bunch of their kids show up and I've started to bring my 11 year old.
For some of you that might be turned off by the part that might look religious, at least in my area, nothing seems religious but I'm told that's different in other parts of the country.
