There's a bunch of them. I'm opinionated on physical real world actual concrete versioned implementations, not theoretical amorphous relationships existing in pure thought stuff, which is how a lot of these projects "documentation" is written - as if the code lives in abstraction like some improvised jazz scatting.
That practice is pure cult bullshit.
But yes, plenty of orms are fine, as long as it's a convenience. It has to empower the user, not just set up blockades in order to adhere to some ideological purity. That's once again, cult nonsense