There's large scale, there's really large scale and then there's Facebook scale. They operate at a scale that almost no one does, and in fact, if you're thinking of how to operate at that volume when you start your new project, then I'd say you're doing it wrong (I know you didn't actually say that - just pointing out that no one should be thinking of how to operate at that scale when designing their basic architecture).
I don't really know how their photo system works - maybe it is a trivial thing to purge files from CDNs on demand - but I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt and say never attribute to malice, what could be explained by earth-population-level scaling problems.
Also unrelated: Facebook has shown many times that they can't really be trusted on privacy issues - I never upload anything there under the illusion that I can freely delete it and it's really gone. But I don't personally believe this thing is a privacy issue they're intentionally balking on
Thanks to those of you who give Facebook the benefit of doubt. I don't work on this particular system, so I'm not qualified to discuss any specifics, nor do I speak for the company. I can say this though: People @ Facebook do care about these types of problems and work to solve them. I'm not some new grad; I've worked with large systems for a while. The scale is hard for me to comprehend. The systems I do work with illustrate very well that nothing is as simple as you think it might be and most of the obvious solutions get tossed out the window because they won't scale.
Maybe I mis-represented my argument. I didn't mean that I code small scale projects with large scale back ends just in case a user base boom happens. I meant that I try to code as using a "module" approach as much as possible. When (and if) the opportunity presents itself, the small scale project will be able to integrate a large scale solution much more easily.
You're making the same mistake that many awful managers make; namely "If the problem seems like it should be easy, it must be easy".
You aren't familiar with Facebook's infrastructure and comparing working on small websites to working on something that scales to roughly 1/12 of the entire population of the planet is laughably naive.
Saying you use a "modul[ar]" approach is nothing but handwaving. You think that facebook doesn't use modules? Or doesn't have a service oriented architecture to some degree? They friggin' developed their own RPC transport!
I don't really know how their photo system works - maybe it is a trivial thing to purge files from CDNs on demand - but I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt and say never attribute to malice, what could be explained by earth-population-level scaling problems.
Also unrelated: Facebook has shown many times that they can't really be trusted on privacy issues - I never upload anything there under the illusion that I can freely delete it and it's really gone. But I don't personally believe this thing is a privacy issue they're intentionally balking on