Are you a man or woman? Are you trying to date women? The implication is that you're a guy after girls, but that's not clear and I'm not sure what to take from that.
And did you explain anything about why it is toxic, just a reflexive "it's bad mmmmmkay" and that you left -- but you didn't say what you went looking for, or what you found, and why it's better.
Furthermore there is the "[probably rich] guy in a foreign country" thing, which may skew things further.
Nor did you explain why, despite having a ton of female friends who stayed at your house, you weren't able to turn those into romantic options.
>Nor did you explain why, despite having a ton of female friends who stayed at your house, you weren't able to turn those into romantic options.
How is he supposed to answer that? The only way to get a definitive answer for your question is to find all the female friends, then arrest them and interrogate them for a week or so (to ensure they give honest answers). Assuming OP was actually interested in some of these women, it's very likely he doesn't know why they weren't interested, and normally people don't give honest answers about why they're not interested in being more than friends with someone, to avoid hurt feelings.
What really galls me about these comments is that many people here, including you, seem to completely not understand that different countries have different cultures, and what things are considered attractive traits in romantic partners differ greatly from place to place. People are NOT the same in different parts of the world.
And did you explain anything about why it is toxic, just a reflexive "it's bad mmmmmkay" and that you left -- but you didn't say what you went looking for, or what you found, and why it's better.
Furthermore there is the "[probably rich] guy in a foreign country" thing, which may skew things further.
Nor did you explain why, despite having a ton of female friends who stayed at your house, you weren't able to turn those into romantic options.