I don’t mind, but it’s definitely okay for people to be offended by the use of (what seems to be?) BDSM fetish community terminology. I don’t think this is a common term. If I referred to the cat face emoji as the pussy emoji or the cunt emoji in a Rust programming language article, I’d expect some pushback.
i think it also depend on the social group/context. in some place the word bottom kinda lost some of his "sexual" connotation and become just a "fun" world for submissive/unassertive.
(to be clear i also think is okay not to like this kind of language)