Have you tried consulting? There are tradeoffs but when you get to make your own decisions about the tech being used it at least lets you have a sense of agency and control, and you can pick whatever makes you happy and gets the job done.
I feel you though, it seems more and more frequent that I dream of moving to Montana and living on a farm.
I feel you though, it seems more and more frequent that I dream of moving to Montana and living on a farm.