It doesn't sound as bad to me as I guess it does to you. There's a lot of variability in how words sound to people, especially across geographical ranges.
I use the word 'jerk' when one user is being rude to another in a gratuitous-supercilious way, which is not quite the same thing as 'personal attack' although they obviously overlap.
I use the word 'jerk' when one user is being rude to another in a gratuitous-supercilious way, which is not quite the same thing as 'personal attack' although they obviously overlap.
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I've used the word 'asshole' for more severe cases, usually when there's a repeated pattern of it:
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