I'm not criticizing you. It's just part of the difference in standard of living. In the US, only the rich can afford a domestic worker, because it would cost up-words of $200 a day. In South Africa it is a fraction of that cost even if you are paying above market rates.
So? You think I'm staying in SA just because once every 7 days I pay someone to mow my lawn?
How much money do you think I am saving by staying in SA and paying someone to mow the lawn?