Hello, over the last few months I've gained a couple notable contacts. Both have told me if I have any ideas I'd like to show them I can email them anytime.
Recently I've had trouble picking an idea out of 4 different detailed project descriptions I made, one of which I will make a working demo of to present to various incubators. After much frustration I decided to email both of them asking if I can send these documents in confidence to help with my decision, both agreed.
Right as I'm about to send them I feel slightly anxious that they might be taken.
Are my fears valid?
Take myself for example, I would be the kind of guy, you would be worried about stealing your idea, I am a developer who has done several start-ups. I could build it, and I could get the money to grow it. The reality though is if you told me what you where doing, I would give you honest feedback and wish you well. The reason being, I am too involved in my own idea, and too emotionally invested in it, to drop what I am doing to try and steal yours. Not only that, you would be hard pressed to get me to help you beyond some recommendations, because I am just to busy.
It's the same pattern with investors, people that have the capability to steal your idea are just to busy already. You have an uphill battle just convincing them to come along for the ride with you. Think about it, if you talked to a VC, they are not going to go advertise for developers assembly a team and develop it, just because they think it is a great idea.
If they think it is that great, they are going to take the easier path and just fund you. Fears of the established person (the people you should be talking to) stealing your idea are overblown.