In Poland people have a neat life hack for that problem. They have other names for non-polish folk to use. Eg pawek, tomek, bartek rather than have people mangle their real name.
My name got changed when I moved to Spain and it never bothered me, while I have met people who took great offence at the use of standard nicks that they had not explicitly sanctioned in advance.
I know a guy who makes a new name up for everyone he meets. Like or lump it.
If you are too sensitive about your name, you risk people not using it at all.
He was in Argentina for the Chess Olympiad in 1939 when WW2 started, so he stayed and got stuck there. It's unlikely he'd be known as "Miguel" now if this had never happened.
I wonder how far back this practice goes. There are quite a few Polish-American last names which are like that, to the point that the original last name has been forgotten.
I had a Polish American GF. I have no idea how to pronounce her last name. Also had an Austrian friend. When people asked how to pronounce his last name he'd say you can't.
My name got changed when I moved to Spain and it never bothered me, while I have met people who took great offence at the use of standard nicks that they had not explicitly sanctioned in advance. I know a guy who makes a new name up for everyone he meets. Like or lump it. If you are too sensitive about your name, you risk people not using it at all.