The convoluted language necessary to do this can make things worse. This sounds more like being politically correct than anything else.
Also, I personally hate chapter headings stated in the form of questions. Whenever I see that, I know the next section will be full of useless "don't worry" platitudes.
A lot of the convolution goes away if you embrace the third-person singular "they". It sounds odd at first but I'm slowly adjusting to it as I hear it more and more.
f) Avoid using gender-specific terminology
The convoluted language necessary to do this can make things worse. This sounds more like being politically correct than anything else.
Also, I personally hate chapter headings stated in the form of questions. Whenever I see that, I know the next section will be full of useless "don't worry" platitudes.