Why would that invalidate perception (or why would the gatekeeping be relevant) since the whole discussion is merely about being in a place to afford it, the trajectory of which occurs far in advance of having children
The only other thing i could see is whether I wind up living close to one or the partner has their own restrictions
Just seems like a much more privileged position to have an outside perspective than the people with kids who didn’t even know they can’t afford the choice, like the person in the article
