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Never thought this would happen to me as looks was almost the only thing that mattered (as much as I didn't want that to be the case), but it did.

After my first horribly failed marriage (and damaged kids due to wife being a complete failure), something clicked in my head and I finally find personality extremely important.

Not sure if it's an age thing or just a change after trauma, but it's been a very positive change.

Weight is still somewhat important at the extreme, but otherwise it's been a 180* shift - really fascinating.



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