I was addressing this statement from OP

>reserved only for the deepest of lovers

For some reason I interpreted this as deep love being random. Maybe that wasn't the intent, after re-reading it.

Just wanted to demonstrate what had worked for me to rekindle intimacy. And that it was teachable.

The book "Conscious Loving" by Gay and Kaitlyn Hendricks is the book that talks about telling the Microscopic Truth. It's helped me tremendously.

I enjoy their newsletter a lot. They discuss in detail many of the concepts in their books. And it's free.

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Here's Why Sharing Your Emotions - Even The Messy, Angry Ones - Is Critical For A Great, Intimate Relationship