I can't speak for Ruby or Java because I haven't even looked at their documentation sites.
User comments? PHP user comments are crap, IMHO - so many people writing so much horrible code in those comments.
I understand where a lot of PHP supporters are coming from because I was once there - I spent four years with the language and thought it was the most beautiful thing that existed. Until Python, Scheme, Erlang, and Haskell invaded my life.
PHP will always be an amateur programming language - which is it's strength, kind of like BASIC, a great stepping stone but nothing more.