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Those with extreme views certainly do exist but they tend to be pushed to the front by those who have vested interests against homeschooling. Most of the people who I've known who homeschooled did it because their child wasn't getting the attention they needed in the school system. Typically after a couple of years at home, they returned to the public school system, having caught up and developed better learning skills.

What I don't understand is this comment "essential to a child's development to be part of a social classroom experience" but it is a very common view. Ignoring online schools, the largest public high school in the US has over 8,000 students and high schools with 3,000-4,000 student are common. When in human history has it been the norm for children to gather daily in such large numbers everyday away from their families, with only high level supervision from adults who aren't their parents nor have much depth of insight into their lives? It's more akin to Lord of the Flies with the occasional adult commentary than a way to learn good social skills. What they learn is the law of jungle and many people are scared for life by the experience. Even at the elementary and middle school levels, enrollment of 1,000 students in a single school is common. There's absolutely nothing natural about this. It's an absurd artificial construct and it's amazing so many people think it is somehow a good thing.

Another common question is how will children make friends if not at school? For myself, most of my friends were those I met at school but about a quarter were from meeting in the neighborhood, through youth group at church, or through family or friend-of-a-friend connections. Just because someone lived in my neighborhood didn't mean they went to my public school. Some went to religious or private secular schools. Some kids at church also attended private secular schools (our church didn't have a school) or a different public school. If I had been homeschooled, I still would have met about a quarter of my friends outside of school, and probably would have met many of the same in-school friend through those friends due to common interests and geography. All of this was without me being into sports, which is another way children meet friends, even if it wasn't one of the ways I met them.




> Those with extreme views certainly do exist but they tend to be pushed to the front by those who have vested interests against homeschooling.

On the flip side, many homeschoolers have encountered public school teachers with extreme views. Extreme views may be fairly well distributed throughout society.


A lot of countries place a lot of value on societal interaction and cohesion. For example, in Switzerland, you go to the school to be "swiss" (they have a lot of immigrants, so this is important), homeschooling really isn't an option in some cantons, while strictly regulated in others.




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