On: How to seem good at everything: Stop doing stupid shit

[Estragon]

Sounds like you enjoy first dates, but if you're looking for a stable relationship, it's much easier when you've adopted a sustainable manner early on.

[gizzlon → Estragon]

Agree, I just don't think running around thinking "don't mess up, don't mess up, don't mess up" is sustainable.

Quite the contrary actually: leaning back, having fun and "being yourself" is sustainable because you don't put on an act.