If you just crossed tracks with a criminal known for killing, then raping and torturing their victims. Then YES, you should be very happy that you avoided more terrible things. I thought this was common wisdom among people, but perhaps it is not shared by everyone.
So, given that the woman in question has not crossed tracks with someone known for raping, why should she be happy that she hasn't been raped.
Honestly, at this point, why not just admit you're not a particularly empathic person, and other people's problems don't bother you. That would at least be better than this rather facile attempt at backing up an untenable position.
This should absolutely be AirBnB's marketing pitch.